We're pretty excited about it, because this Friday - December 13th - we go to find out the gender of this baby! When I was pregnant with Ada, our entire family (literally - my parents, siblings, Jordan's brother's family and my grandparents) loaded up and headed to Atlanta. We went to a place called Stork Vision and all found out at the same time whether Ada was a girl or a boy. It was an experience I wouldn't trade for anything! However, with this pregnancy, trying to find a day that everyone could go was difficult - especially since my siblings are spread out over 3 different states now (Missouri, New York and Texas). So, we decided to just have the sonographer at my OB do a gender reveal sonogram.
This time, instead of a room full of people, it will just be Jordan, my mom and myself. We contemplated bringing Ada in, and up until yesterday - that was the plan. We've now decided to let her hang out with my grandmother while we go and telling her ourselves.
There were a couple of reasons we decided to do it this way:
1. The sonographer at my OB isn't the most pleasant woman you've ever been around. I'm sure it will be a very dry "It's a boy." or "It's a girl.", and I was sad thinking about not getting to witness or experience Ada's reaction.
2. I'm a faithful reader of the "DIY" blog Young House Love. Seriously... sometimes I talk as if Sherry and I are BFF's and Jordan just makes fun of me. Sherry and John are expecting their second, and they have a 3 year old. They blogged about how they told Clara, and I LOVED it. In fact, my plan is to do the exact same thing, and video tape Ada's reaction!! I can't wait! I think I'm more excited about her reaction than I am about actually finding out the gender!
Of course we'll have family and friends to share the news with before I share it on here or on Facebook... we're already brainstorming some creative ways to share with my siblings so that they all find out around the same time... (we're thinking a mass FaceTime or Skype session)... Once we've shared with our family and close friends - I'll most definitely blog about it!
Ultimately, we couldn't care less what the gender of this baby is. We're just so thankful that God's blessed us with another sweet baby! But, my hunch is that it's a boy. Jordan's hunch is that it's a girl, and Ada has said from the beginning that she was getting a baby brother. We'll see - hopefully - on Friday!
What do you guys think it will be?
Moving on to Big Sister Ada.
As I've mentioned before, Ada couldn't be more excited about her new baby coming! We can only hope the same enthusiasm is sustained... after the baby actually comes. haha.
Being the firstborn of five children, I feel like I can relate to Ada in a way that is special. After all, her world is about to be rocked. For three years, she's been the center of attention. She's our first child, my parents first grandchild... etc. Now, a new baby is about to come in and take some of that attention off of Ada. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure Ada will still get PLENTY of attention - probably too much, but we wanted to try to prevent Ada from feeling that she has to "work for" or "earn" the attention and affection of those around her.
So, from the beginning, we've tried to help Ada establish and embrace her role in this new journey. One of the first things we did was enroll her in a dance class. Why? Because we wanted her to have something that was hers. She'll have to share parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, toys, etc. with the new baby, but dance class is something that is hers.
This dance class has proven to be just a joy for her and for us! We love watching her learn and try new things! Obviously, if you follow me on Instagram or Facebook, you know that we struggle sometimes with paying attention and following directions - but, we're improving.
Ada had her first performance this past weekend.
They danced in the Quintard Mall to Rosemary Clooney's "Suzy Snowflake". Ada did great! Of course she didn't do all the moves perfectly - and she even went rogue a couple of times. She almost refused to do her front roll out of concern for "messing up her hair"... but, she did it - and she loved every minute of it. After it was over, she said "Mommy, I'm so proud of myself."
Click Here To Watch Ada's "Suzy Snowflake" Dance - She's second from the right!
Early on, when talking to Ada about the baby, we realized that even though she seemed to understand what would happen, she had NO concept of when it would happen. So, I whipped out some construction paper and did the first thing that came to my mind... a "Big Sister" chain.
I made a link for every week until Week 40. Every Tuesday, Ada gets to take a link off of her chain, and she understands that as the chain gets shorter - it's getting closer to time for the baby to come!
She's super into this. It makes it more real for her.
This is a terrible picture I snapped with my phone, but you can see the chain hanging from her window.
Well, I'll leave you with an "Ask Big Sister Ada"!
The next post should be one revealing whether Baby Weathers is a HE or a SHE!
1. Mommy's belly is the size of a _____________ ? A computer
2. The baby, right now, is the size of a ______________ ? A coconut
3. What are you most excited to help with once the baby gets here? Changing his poopie diapers























